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me PhP600,000 richer, if not (no deal) she will be given a chance to pick and open another briefcase—she opted for the latter. I whispered to myself, “Ow sheyt na malagkeyt this lady is pushing her luck too far!” The case opened and revealed the amount of PhP500,000. Now briefcase #23 which is with the contestant and briefcase #14 were the only ones left unopened. Which of these two will correspond to PhP300 and PhP2M? The banker’s final offer was PhP888,888. For the last time, Kris asked, “Deal or No Deal?” While the audience’s reaction was divided, the contestant’s members of the family stood firm and were shouting “no deal.” I, too, was shouting in front of the TV set, “goddamnit take the money and run!” The lady was adamant and explained that she was born on the 14th and is now 23 years of age (the numbers on the 2 remaining briefcases) like luck was on her side and she will be a millionaire this young. “No deal” was the response and Kris opened briefcase #23 and revealed an eye-popping figure of 300!
grasses in the park approaching the famous “Nothing Hill” bench and then you both take your seats and watch the golden sun setting in the bay. In an instant came all your children and their husbands and wives and all their children. All your children, now all accomplished, staring at both of you—wishing they were all like you!
Ginanap kahapon sa Batasang Pambansa ang ika-8 State of the Nation Address (SONA) ni Pangulong Gloria Macapagal-Arroyo na tumagal ng isang oras. Inihayag niya sa Kamara at sa sambayanang Pilipino ang mga nagawa ng kanyang pamahalaan nitong nakaraang taon at ang mga balak pang gawin sa nalalabi pa niyang dalawang taon sa panunungkulan. Nakakataba ng pusong marinig na mahal niya ang mamamayang Pilipino lalo na ang mga mahihirap. Nagmistula siyang isang butihing ina sa pag-ako ng responsibilidad sa kanyang nasasakupan. Ang talumpati niya ay nasisingitan ng panaka-nakang palakpakan mula sa mga dumalo sa plenary hall. Ang pinakamalakas na palakpakan ay nuong sabihin niya na ang texting ay way of life na ng mga Pinoy at nakumbinsi niya ang telecommunications networks na ibaba sa 50 sentimo ang bawa’t text (nguni’t ayon naman sa mga networks ang promo nila ay tatagal lang hanggang Oktubre 2008). May mga tao pang tinawag ang Pangulo mula sa galeriya na magpapatunay na sila’y nakinabang o umasenso dahil sa mga programa ng administrasyon. Binigyang diin ni Pangulong Arroyo ang kahalagahan ng VAT dahil ito ang nagiging pantustos sa mga gastusin ng gobyerno. Ipinangako rin niya na tuloy ang laban sa korupsyon sa lahat ng sangay ng pamahalaan. Marami siyang tinalakay sa mahaba niyang isang oras na pagsasalita pero dalawang paksa lamang ang nais kong bigyan ng malaking pansin. Ang una rito ay ang VAT. Tila baga wala ng pamamaraan para makalikom ng salapi upang ipangtustos sa mga gastusin ng pamahalaan kundi ang pagpataw ng sari-saring buwis. Ano na ang kinahinatnan ng ating mga likas yaman na iniluluwas sa ibang bansa? Hindi ba sapat ang kikitain dito upang malimitahan ang iba’t ibang uri ng buwis? Hindi nga dahil mas malaki pa ang ipinapasok na dolyar sa bansa ng mga Pilipinong naghahanapbuhay sa ibang bansa. Salamat sa mga OFWs at kahit papaano ay medyo naiangat nila ang kabuhayan ng marami-rami ring pamilyang Pilipino. At least nakasisiguro na sila ng pagkain sa mesa tatlong ulit sa isang araw. Nguni’t matindi naman ang kapalit ng mawalay sa isang pamilya at ito’y nangangailangan ng mabigat na sakripisyo. Ang pangalawa ay ang pagsugpo o paglaban sa korupsyon. Sa aking palagay ay wala ring kahahantungan ito hangga’t selective ang pagparusa sa mga naaakusahan. Minsa nga’y naiisip ko na i-legalize na ang korupsyon. Magtalaga ng maximum na 10% na komisyon sa lahat ng proyekto ng gobyerno na paghahatian ng lahat mula sa dyanitor hanggang hepe ng ahensya—sa ganitong paraan, everybody happy di ba? Talamak talaga ang korupsyon. Laking gulat ko nga ng mapanoon ko sa telebisyon ang isang dokumentaryo tungkol sa pangingidnap ng bandidong abu sayaf kasama ang isang mag-asawang Amerikano. Nagbigay ng ransom money na kapalit sana ng paglaya ng mag-asawa nguni’t sa kasawiang palad ang halagang nakarating sa abu sayaf ay bawas na at naibulsa ng mga taong gobyerno. Kahiya-hiya talaga ito isipin pa natin na naipalabas din ito sa buong mundo.

. . . . . . . . . . . . . . .From top to bottom Jowin, Tyrene, Windale, Migs and Nichi
It was now time for Ate Win to find her mate and so she did to a person she knew since their freshman year in college. The 5 became four. We were all very happy for her fully knowing that sooner or later it will come as part of the natural process.
At Ate Win's wedding
Then it was Nichi’s time to go. No, Nichi did not find his mate. He found his destiny! Nichi, our youngest, succumbed to a dreadful disease he battled for more than 6 years. He was just a 13-year old kid. Before we were discharged from the hospital in September 2006 the attending physician informed me that Nichi’s case is what they term as end stage. This meant that our son had only days or weeks or months to live. I firmly refused to accept this fact. I just thought it was not right. The parent has to go first—it should be first in, first out sort of thing. We brought Nichi home very very weak. He cannot sit by himself from a lying position let alone stand on his two feet. His young body was ravaged by continuous infusion of fourth generation antibiotics and chemotherapy against the stubborn cancer cells in his system. I still refused to call it a defeat. I can see in my son’s eyes his determination to live, his desire to be with his siblings whose company he was very comfortable with. There is a promising future ahead of him. Here is a kid who is jolly, kind, entertaining, helpful and intelligent. He has great ambition and it would be unfair to deprive him of this. In one and a half month Nichi was up and about—he was back to his usual self. In December Ate had her wedding. We were all there to witness the event. Nichi was with the wedding entourage. He substituted as host for the evening reception. He played with his brothers and sisters. But happiness was short lived. The year 2007 proved not kind to Nichi. He lost his left eyesight in January. The following month the leukemia cells in his body had multiplied at a rapid rate. But he still showed no sign of giving up. It took 5 more months to force this young kid to retire on his bed. The stubborn leukemia cells were all over his nervous system. One night I told him he had bravely fought his battle but it was now time for him to rest. It was time to be with Papa Jesus. It was time to leave the pain, the misery, and the sacrifices behind. It was time to live a beautiful afterlife. He knew how much we so loved him. He knew how difficult for us to let go of him but we had to—to set him free. With a smile on his face he obliged. He nodded, took his last breath and then he was gone. It was the evening of July 24, 2007.
Life is a cycle. It is a natural process to preserve and insure continuity of the species. It is also the natural process of living and dying.
In hindsight I realized that God has been very good to us. He gave us 10 more months for Nichi to be with us. More importantly, He allowed Nichi to be at his Ate Win’s wedding the special event he had been looking forward to. He gave us a lot of people to be part of Nichi’s life. Friends, relatives, officemates, friends of friends of friends, people who we don’t even knew or met in person supported Nichi and our family.
This Thursday, July 24, 2008 it will be a year since Nichi left this world. Joseph Nichole “Nichi” Delgado, our angel in heaven, is praying for all of us.
Nichi's 13th birthday
Nichi winning spiderman drawing contest
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